nope12345678901234567890 asked:
Support Group at my school
I have been talking to the student council of my school about running a support group about gender diversity, they all have agreed that it is a wonderful idea and has talked to the teachers about it. The teachers have also agreed that it will be a good thing to have, so now it’s just a matter of talking to the teachers myself about when and where I can run my support group. I have great hopes that people will show up maybe because they have questions about the genders we have in our community, maybe they don’t identify with their birth gender or are questioning. I am hoping it will be successful but is there anything I should focus on for the first session? Any questions you would ask in a support group like this? What would you want to get out of a support group?
Binders and the heat
Guys, gal, non binary pals, please be careful when wearing a binder in hot weather (or layers) you are at risk of heat exhaustion! Drink lots of water, stay cool and if you do experience heat exhaustion go to the hospital (extreme cases) or sit in front of a fan me use a wet cloth to wet your skin and drink cool water no ice.
Binding
DO NOT use bandages!
DO NOT USE ANY KIND OF TAPE (this includes medical)
Instead use sports bras, doubling up is okay,(with the bra, NOT the binder, DONT double up on a binder!) just don’t do it for too long. Suggested time to bind is 8hours, even if it’s with a sports bra .
Don’t exercise while binding, your breathing is restricted and you’ll have a more likely chance to pass out.
Don’t sleep in a binder/double sports bra
Some people swim while wear their binder or doubling, this is okay but it will be hard to get the binder off (depending on what kind of binder you are wearing)
No there is nothing wrong with that! Maybe you could say you are trigender or you don’t always recognise yourself with your birth gender?
I hope this helps and if you have any other questions please ask!
Anonymous asked:
[For me] Identifying as both is confusing and frustrating as I would like my mind to decide, clothing is difficult to choose and it dose interfere with my daily life. With neither, I just feel comfortable in anything and don’t care what pronouns are used, but it isn’t often that I identify as neutral. [with being Genderfluid there is no pattern, but that is not the same for everyone]
Clothes can be related, if wearing masculine clothing makes you feel comfortable and closer to being male, then wear them! [I do wear feminie and masculine clothing to feel closer to the gender I identify with at the time]
Sometimes even doing ‘masculine’ or ‘feminie’ stereotypes is seen when someone feels a certain gender
heyyitzkacy-blog asked:
Bigender is a gender identity which can be literally translated as ‘two genders’ or 'double gender’. You are not limited two just male and female with Bigender. It is okay to be unsure about it [don’t let others tell you who you have to be] just ask yourself some questions like:
What gender do I feel like more? What can I do to make myself feel more comfortable?
Write them down and see if there is a trend. It can take time to find out who you are and why you feel like this. Maybe try different clothing and such.
[I hope this cleared something’s up ^^” if you have anymore questions please ask, I want to help out as best I can!]
Anonymous asked:
Bigender is a gender identity which can be literally translated as ‘two genders’ or ‘double gender’. This just means your aren’t limited to just male and female, but also neutral and both. Genderfluid is when you feel all four. It all depends on how you feel and what you want to identify as. There is also Trigender meaning ‘three genders’. It is really up to you and how you feel [actives, the way you dress, etc.] and what you want to identify as. It’s okay to be unsure sometimes, you just have to find out what you are comfortable with!
I am glad you want to learn about genders and have some understanding about it, just remember your biological sex doesn’t define what gender you are!
[I hope this cleared something’s up, if not, feel free to message me or ask another question!]
Anonymous asked:
It can’t also be called agender, meaning no gender, the person doesn’t identify with either (pronouns could be they,them,theirs). This does not effect sexuality in any way, shape or form. A person would be (for example) pansexual and still not identify as any gender.
I hope this cleared some things up! ^.^
Anonymous asked:
When I am neutral I feel as tho I could do anything and not be angry with my self. It is troubling emotionally when I am both, I get confused and angry since my mind can’t make itself up, I do (in a way) feel trapped and try to get on with my day
Anonymous asked:
I would typically do “masculine” things when I feel female. Sometimes I don’t mind it after when I paint my nails, sometimes (after an hour of painting nails) I’ll be angry and start to scrap it off. But I typically do “stereotypical” things when feeling a certain gender
Anonymous asked:
I generally wear different coloured bands for each gender I feel, so pink for female, blue for male, grey for neutral and purple for when I am both (I do dress in feminine clothes when I am female and masculine clothes when I am male, both or neutral is generally a mix.)
Taking care of homophobic people
If someone says something homophobic around you just say:
“We are called HOMOsapians, not HETROsapians”
Anonymous asked:
Hi hi! I am sorry it took so long to answer! I recon you could go with a gender neutral name, like as you said before “Ollie” could work or “Yoli”. It really depends on if you are comfortable being call by gender neutral names but if you want a male name then maybe Otto or Yuma?
I hope this was helpful but if you want me to give different names then please tell me!
(I find that changing from a name it is easy to use the same first letter of your nickname or given name)

